For some reason I couldn’t post on your Depression post. Don’t compare Fateha, I know it’s hard not to but you’ll only bring yourself and Fateha grief. Get excited for what she can do and work with her on the things she can’t.
I remember being really worried about Meghan not being able to drink from a cup till she was almost 3 years old while other kids were doing it at a year. Now she does it and you’d never know she laged behind when she was younger. Because Fateha had a rough start she’ll do things a little slower, but when they’re all teens you’ll be saying what was I worried about.
Enjoy the child you have don’t spend your time wishing her to be something she’s not. I’ve been there and it wont make things better. Meg still is behind in some things but we don’t focus on it we celebrate everything she can do well and work on the things she can’t.
this is funny. cos i have replied to your comment just a few days ago. anyway, i have been able to block my heart & mind from thinking negatively and trying to think of the good things out of my little girl.
thanx for your advice kirst. i’ll keep it in my brain frame
For some reason I couldn’t post on your Depression post. Don’t compare Fateha, I know it’s hard not to but you’ll only bring yourself and Fateha grief. Get excited for what she can do and work with her on the things she can’t.
I remember being really worried about Meghan not being able to drink from a cup till she was almost 3 years old while other kids were doing it at a year. Now she does it and you’d never know she laged behind when she was younger. Because Fateha had a rough start she’ll do things a little slower, but when they’re all teens you’ll be saying what was I worried about.
Enjoy the child you have don’t spend your time wishing her to be something she’s not. I’ve been there and it wont make things better. Meg still is behind in some things but we don’t focus on it we celebrate everything she can do well and work on the things she can’t.
Lots of big hugs
Kirst
It’s not easy but you can do it.
this is funny. cos i have replied to your comment just a few days ago. anyway, i have been able to block my heart & mind from thinking negatively and trying to think of the good things out of my little girl.
thanx for your advice kirst. i’ll keep it in my brain frame
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thanx! do come again